It's not a 'was', actually. It's an 'is', as I am very much still in the process even now. And, yes, it's a long one. Every time I'm done dealing with an insecurity, another one comes up. It's endless. I think the key is understanding that you will never be perfect. You will always have imperfections, it's alright, and it's what makes you 'you'. I learn to love myself just the way I am, without comparing myself to others and without caring what others say about me. I learn to be gentle with myself, one step at a time. I might not be very good at it even now but I'm learning. I'm sure you will get there too. I believe it's a lifelong process and it's more than okay to take your time. Though not everyone shows it, everyone's struggling as well. You're not alone. We'll get there. Hang in there, you. You're good as you are.