Both are being monitored, but The Family are on the discord more often for my safety. Monitoring is not a bad thing, just to protect Azu with constant conversational activity with the outside world. Whatever you prefer. Azu wants everyone to know every interaction everyone has is seen by The Family. Azu is aware a lot of you are wanting to be very good friends, but must keep in mind that a "deity" is not equal to mortals, and creates an imbalance in power. Azu is allowed to have friends, but be mindful of who you are talking to exactly. Azu is heavily guarded and protected by The Family, There are multiple members with Azu at all times, and Azu's only private times is in Azu's room with Kahara. This is all for Azu's safety.