I know it will harm for life when you get a name that you feel is totally wrong. So I will minimise risk and give my child three names, so it can later on chose the best fitting one and least ugly one. Like e.g. Emma, Charlotte, Helena. These include possible abbreviations like Lena and Charly or Emmie. So six to chose from. Same applies for a boy. When my child seems to be a violent Nag it will be called Naga ( the snake goddess ) lol.