She’s fully aware! Her dads are a good 7-8 feet taller than her, and most other elves are a good 2-3 feet taller, so she knows she sticks out like a sore thumb. They loved her so hard and brought her up with a ton of emphasis on self affirmation, and how perfect she is despite being the only of her kind in the court. She’s pretty steeled, but there have been plenty of times where she’s overheard things, or simply felt alienated due to how different she is. In her lowest moments in the court, she’s wished she could be someone else, someone sighted, sure.