jar, i hope you're okay. don't let any of the crazies get to you. if they want to interpret an rpf tweet with such seriousness, they should not be here. by attacking you, they're just getting their rocks off for being morally superior. you've explained enough about your own intentions, and them refusing to listen is a reflection of them, not you. if you're receiving hate from these people, please delete all of it. you don't deserve that at all. we know how much love you have for the boys. sending you so much support and love jar.