don't u think both sides do the same like wanting the bottom to be mommyfied and the wife? i feel like all fandoms do this with mlm ships. ofc hwx gets it way more but even bttm jccngers do it imo idk. like subverting roles etc it's always top being masc. why not have hwx be the mommy milf but still a top or hj the masc one and still bottom? even tho he's femenine i think hwx is more femenine out of them which is why people tend to bottomfy him but yeah.