One of the first things someone told me when I started posting my art was something along the lines of "I love how all your old men are reluctant" so this made me laugh. thank you anon. I don't think I have a reason...? for always doing that, besides that it's cute LOL... I can go for older men being assertive or aggressive with a tsun loli too but I have a deep appreciation for gap moe. So if there's a tall dark and silent or creepy man, I like to think he can be sappy too.