Hi hi love! Look i don’t know where you got the idea i decided to dictate people what to write. To question why they write certain things is normal. I never come to writers’ comments or RS to tell them what they should and shouldn’t do in their work, I read a lot and come across some things more often than others and so i QUESTION them ON MY page for MY sake. i am not even a big account to even have the intention to dictate what and how people should and shouldn’t write, i QUESTION why they see things differently when i get a different idea from what i see and hear and it is not pathetic. Just because i had one hit tweet that many people reacted to doesn’t mean i claimed a right to be a moral police, i shared my opinion and my concerns when the tropes become too much - and let’s not act they don’t. Sometimes the big guy - tiny princess trope is too on the nose when in fact they’re still dudes of relatively similar sizes. RELATIVELY. I have eyes i know Minho is buff and Jisung flirts about it, and i love it cause it’s fun, the discourse was initially based on things that make me blink and go “???” because tropes make it look like they’re incredibly different

Additionally , It’s what and how we read the things they say.. because Big baby can mean that Minho is more of a baby, he’s a grown dude but acts like a big baby, he’s jisung’a hyung but still his big baby to dote on, he is like his cats but in a human form (bigger than a real cat).

oh lol hi friend! I don’t find it pathetic nor was complaining, it was be being confused with the common narrative. it was rather funny to see what jsng said in the video though, he’s comments are endearing and lovely. And Jsng’s hands aren’t that big either, and it’s the fact they acknowledged as well, so no wonder it wasn’t super easy for him to envelop mnho’s fists for the game. I still don't see the issue tho?

The tweet where I am talking about portraying mnho as a big guy was never intended to reach so many people. his hands are, in fact, rather small and fingers short. Just the other day everyone was discussing this when mnho made hearts with his hands at the airport. Did you come at those people to and called them fucking pathetic too?

hi dear friend <3 thank you for stopping by and sharing this (this is my first RS I feel like blushing huhu).
ANYWAY yes, and referring to the last bit - even if people choose pics of cis girls, there ARE girls with similar physique and beautiful strong thighs..
why is it always 5’4 skinny petite girls?
My main concern is that i fear if those creators Do try to find guys in skirts, they just won’t like the look altogether. Do you get why exactly I am weirded out by this?
All that being said, of course it is up to the creators to choose whatever they want for their own works. If I don’t like it, I’ll scroll past it. I just couldn’t help but notice this.. trend.