Speaking as the person normally on the other end of the practice of "overlooking" things about your partner's past, I don't like it. If you need to ignore something about my past to want to be with me, then I think you're better off moving on down the line.

I think mostly. I haven’t discovered any deep dark secret… YET.

I can. But what's in it for me ?

Nope. Actions are important.

Only the things that I might know but the unknown things likely too. People do not expect me to tolerate much, but I do. When you are my partner I do put a lot of trust in you including that you might not repeat former errors again and again. I have done many dumb and idiotic and uncharming things during my past, my own behaviour was not beyond doubt and I hope to not repeat it so I give everybody I know more than second chances.

Like murder? 👀

not anything, most things I would say, I'm good with second chances and giving people an opportunity to redefine themselves